Disagreements are a way of life, they happen when we fail to understand others but they don’t have to cause havoc and don’t have to destroy relationships.
Disagreements test and reveal the nature of relationships, whether brittle or resilient, when communicated in a kind and gentle way can strengthen relationships in the fire of disagreements.
Listen to different opinions without becoming defensive or argumentative and look for common ground, a point of agreement and seek to understand.
The tools to approach disagreements are:
👉 a gentle voice
👉 a quiet spirit
👉 a humble heart
👉 an open mind and
👉 a prayerful attitude.
📌Agreeing to disagree is a great indicator of a healthy relationship.
Relationships are grounds on which everything will rise or fall;
Unresolved problems paralyze,
Forgiveness and understanding will galvanize;
Stubborn pride, holding grudges for life time will not get you a Nobel prize;
Low living is to complain, condemn and criticize;
Bearing bitter fruits is how one ends up in the efforts to fertilize;
Once we internalize, realize, compromise or simply apologize to resolve life’s affairs before sunrise;
We conduct a life of noble enterprise